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Sunday, December 11, 2011

7 Online Dating Mistakes That Could Break Your Heart Bank

Cindy McDonald from Best Christian Dating Sites kindly wrote a guest post for me on the pitfalls of online dating. "If youíre single and looking for love or companionship online in this day in age... itís no secret that it can be tough out there," the article reads. "And because of the dangers hiding behind every '.com,' not only do you have to protect your fragile heart from being broken, but you also have to protect your wallet from being robbed. So before you take to the dating scene on the web, it is essential to educate yourself on the various mistakes that could leave you loveless and penniless. Check out the following financial pitfalls in online dating and tips for avoiding them in your quest for a cyber-relationship:... (For the full 7 Online Dating Mistakes That Could Break Your Heart Bank story, click here.)
HARD NEWS REPORTED ON JANUARY 21 2010 (SEXUAL HYPOCRISY OF MALAYALIS): "Noted Malayalam writer Paul Zacharia's recent opinion that Kerala is a sex starved society raised criticism from various quarters. Zacharia, in an article in a Malayalam literary weekly, Kalakaumudi, commented on the surveillance inclination of Keralites. The comment was based on the recent incident where a Congress leader in Kerala was caught by CPM activists, with a woman. Reacting to this Zacharia criticised the media in Kerala as nothing but 'mediocre', trying to ignite publicity by portraying any sexually alluding instances involving women. Zacharia told Hardnews, "The sexual hypocrisy of Malayali grows in consonance with the growth of religious and political organisations." He mentioned that this sexual hypocrisy is a result of missionary education and the transplantation of Protestant and Catholic Christianity. He added that modernity brought the end of sexual hypocrisy all across the world but in Kerala where it still flourishes. "The reason is that Kerala has been taken over by feudal inclinations," he said.
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"Do MALAYALEE people from kerala have sex for pleasure with their married partners? pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease answer?" This question was recently raised at Yahoo! Answers, by a concerned guy who is about to marry a Malayalam girl. He was no doubt wondering what kind of action he would get after wedding day. As if to reassure him, a particular Zam Zam replied: "Malayalam girls are similar human beings as other ones. Only their sex appetites are a little more than other girls. So, naturally, they like more sexual pleasure than other girls. They have a lot of sex & afterwards do overfeeding which make them fat & stout making their bodies incompatible for sex after 5 - 10 years but control on weight & fitness regularly can prevent that problem too. Scientific surveys show that hottest girls are black African(so called negro) girls & next ones are Keralite (Malayali) ones. There is no other different thing..."
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South Indian actress Abhirami

I don't know what scientific studies Zam Zam was referring to. Well known Mizoram gospel singer Bethsy Lalrinsangi has pledged to remain a virgin till she ties the knot with the right man. As a man about to be married, I appreciate her devotion to her future man. I wish more women were like her.
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"NEW INDIAN EXPRESS CLASSIFIEDS ARE THE BEST PLACE TO MEET MALAYALAM FEMALES," WRITES THEQAVISH AT WORLD VILLAGE. "You can find a bride or wife here. There are more brides looking for grooms than the other way. Here is where you can find the classified ads of this newspaper: Look through the matrimony section and you will find your Mallu girl for love..."
It is true that there are more brides looking for grooms at Express Classifieds India than grooms looking for brides, and this is unusual in the online dating/connection scene. It stands in stark contrast to other parts of India, where women are not only in shortage online... they are in shortage offline as well. The Telegraph from Calcutta reports: "Facing a shortage of brides, a female foeticide belt has turned to a neighbouring state with the highest sex ratio and best social indicators in India.
"The increasing marriages between women from Kerala and desperate Gounder-caste grooms from Tamil Nadu's western Namakkal district has been welcomed by Namakkal collector U. Sagayam..."
Namakkal men are enlisting the help of brokers to find them brides in Kerala's Palghat.
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Bandhan Matrimony Search: Pentecost Malayalam Brides.
There are said to be 40 lac matrimony profiles on Bandhan, from all over India and beyond. The last time I checked in, there were 759 matrimony profiles for Pentecost Malayalam brides aged 23 to 29. There are women from Changanassery (Kerala), Port Blair (Andaman and Nicobar), Sarni (Madhya Pradesh), Pimpri Chinchwad (Maharashtra), Tampa (Florida) and Abu Dhabi (UAE). If you are looking for Catholic brides who have studied Commerce, click here. If you are looking for a Nair Hindu female doctor to be your partner in life, there are nearly 1000 profiles here. As well as Hindus and Christians, there is a considerable number of Muslims in Kerala.
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Bharat Student: Malayalam News, Gossips, Etc.
Connecting young Indians worldwide is the motto here. Listed on this website are the latest Bengali Singles, from Bangladeshi Singles within driving distance of Bangladesh looking to chat with you."
Features include personal media gallery (audio, video, photo albums, etc), personal blog, friends list, guestbook, ShoutBox, block member capability, and Messenger with storage system. Membership is free.
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E-Juty: E-Juty.
Said to be a good place to meet Bengali babes.
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Jojajog: Bengali Matrimonial Service Managed by Bengali People.
Coming at you from Kolkata -- "As a Bengali we understand the culture, taste and other pure bengali factors which is very essential for successful matchmaking," the site claims. Membership costs Rs. 1250 for a six month package. You can find plenty of prospective Bengali brides and grooms here. Writes one woman on her spiel: "Am a Slim, pretty,homely Brahmin girl of 28 years living in my maternal uncle's home in Kolkata. My hometown is Rampurhat, where my parents live.
"My father is a retired employee of W.B.State Electricity Board. My elder maternal uncle was the Departmental Head of Indian Institute of the Cultivation of Sciences. My youngest uncle was the Media director of renowned advertising Agency. My mother is a housewife.
"I love reading and i am trained in Classical Dance. My horoscope details: Dhanu Rashi, Mithun Lagna, Debari Gon, Batsya Gotra..."
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M4Marry: Where Malayalees Marry.
This is the matrimonial site operated by the popular Manorama Online. Categories include Nair, Ezhava, Sunni Muslim, Roman Catholic, Orthodox Christian, Nambiar, and much more. You can have the astrological compatibility of your marriage assessed including Kuja (chovva) Dosha, Papasamya and Dasa Sandh readings. Registration is free. There are thousands of men and women listed.
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Mate 4 All: Dating Kolkata.
The last time I checked there were 3931 entries for people looking for a date in Kolkata. The entries are listed according to age, occupation, star sign (Capricorn, Gemini, Libra, Scorpio), occupation (MBA student, graduate engineer, IT manager, marketing professional, etc.) Wrote abhikmitra (a Hindu): "I am ordinary person, love life, very hard working, loves to spend long hours over phone, love music in the middle of the night, love the rain drops, love the flowing river, love the mountains in winter, "
Eve teasers...
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Model of the Week: Mathrubhumi Eves.
Photo courtesy Mathrubhuni Eves featuring Akshaya Menon

Mathrubhumi is one of the most popular and historic Malayalam newspapers, and like all good newspapers it has its page three girls. They aren't called page three girls, of course, they are "Mahrubhumi Eves" or "Models of the Week". There is a whole section of the newspaper devoted to Mathrubhumi Eves and it features health and cooking advice, and articles on intimacy and weddings. And plenty of photos of pretty girls.
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Quepasa: Social Media Site.
I got an invitation from someone called Srithar Natraj to become friends with them on Quepasa. Since I am planning to spend a full year in India in 2013 or 2014 or whatever and I need all the Indian contacts I can get, I decided to join. As is usually the case on these social sites, you can log in using your Facebook, Twitter, Yahoo!, MySpace or Google IDs. You can import your friends from these various networks. One you are set up you end up with a GMail style control panel with mail inbox containing messages from your friends, photo galleries, and so on. There is also a dating service on Quepasa hosted by Zoosk. Like some other social media sites these days, Quepasa runs its own currency (QDollars). Quepasa has a Spanish/Portugeuse feel (and name), and since I am planning on spending a full year or whatever in South America in 2017 or 2018, perhaps this site will help me when I am there. I don't know how much it would help the average south Indian. It could be worth a look, though.
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Quikr: Divorced Girl Nair 25 in Matrimonial, Trivandrum.

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BEACHES AT TRIVANDRUM ARE PRETTY FUN AND FULL OF WOMEN, AS IS VARKALA BEACH. But that could be a misconception. Nahawna Afooa blogs: "Apparently the saying goes: Expats cry twice - once when they are told they have to go to Bangladesh and once when they have to leave. Why? Because Bangladesh is considered the bottom rung of locations to do development work in the world. Africa is at the top, BD at the bottom. This is what I've learned from all the yearning to go to Africa I've heard from the Aid workers here.
"Now why do they hate to leave? Because of the clubbing, of course. These aren't clubs in the sense that you may be thinking, like say discotec. No, these are Clubs in the most neo-colonial sense of the word: Country Clubs. And you have to be a citizen of the aforementioned country working with purpose in Bangladesh to become a member. Some only allow membership from the diplomatic community, some based on language but all have restrictions on the number of Bangladeshi's that are allowed in at any given time. Heaven's no, they can't become members, they can only be signed in as guests and only a few at a time because one wouldn't want to sully one's reputation. Once you are a member of one club you have access to all the rest. Except, some clubs (read the American Club) think other clubs (read the BAGHA Club - British Aid Workers Guest House Association Club) are too lenient with the locals and have placed extra restrictions on other club's members.
"What's so great about these clubs anyway that everyone is vying for a spot at the membership roster? Well the alcohol and the scantily clad women, of course. These are some of the few places that serve alcohol and where foreign women can wear whatever clothes they want. They hold parties with both of the above present as well as music and dancing. Essentially they are an oasis of the west in Bangladesh.."
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I am with Rakesh on this one: offline is always the best place to meet people, although online can be a good place to nurture your offline contacts and acquiantances. Go to any dating site, and the vast majority of the folk there are men. That is saying something of your chances of scoring online. Odds are much better out in the real world. Then again, I haven't scored that much in either the real or virtual realms, so I am not the best source of info in this respect.
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m a l a y a l a m - m o v i e s s

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South Dreamz: An Ultimate South Indian Entertainment Hub.
Including galleries of Malayalam actresses and models.
m a l a y a l e e - w e d d i n g - r e s o u r c e s

THE MALAYALAM WEDDING SEASON STARTS IN OCTOBER. The Indian International Student Organization claims that "Gujaratis believe that after marriage, the wife becomes her husband's sahdharmacharini or equal. With marriage comes responsibility and power. In fact, it is the wife who must keep house and look after all the household requirements..."
Macher Kalia Kassa Mangsho Chutney Mishti doi / Rosagulla Paan "In an Arya Samaji wedding, the couple take seven pheras. The groom leads for the first four pheras. After this, he walks behind the bride, who leads the last three pheras, thus signifying that the wife will always lead the husband.
"In a Sindhi wedding ceremony, the groom leads the first three rounds while the bride leads the fourth.
"However, every Hindu wedding has at least four pheras. These pheras signify the four main aims of life: Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha..."

Yoni: This indicates the intimacy between the partners in their private life.
Raasi: This indicates the birth (progeny) and luck to have children.
Raasi Adhipathi: This indicates more generations in their life.
Vashiyam: This indicate the intimacy level between the partners in general life and misunderstanding between them.
Rajju: This indicates the longevity of partners and losing partner within short time.
Vedhai: This indicates elimination of sorrow/bad patch in life.
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