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seoul // girl hunting // maids, toys & boys
588 red light district :: chejin's urban landscapes :: ethnic quarters of seoul :: fatman seoul :: gay and lesbian seoul :: hollywoods in itaewon :: january 5 2008: sky cruising :: meeting college girls :: mongolian girls in seoul :: russian girls in seoul


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IF YOU CAN'T FIND THE REAL THING IN KOREA, YOU MIGHT HAVE TO RESORT TO TOYS. Or dolls. Now Korea is nowhere near Japan when it comes to mastering the intricacies of synthethic love. As Gumto Net report: "45살의 엔지니어 타보(Ta-Bo)씨의 귀가 때 집에서 그를 기다리고 있는 것은 부인이나 여자 친구가 아니다. 거실 소파에 단아하고 얌전하게 앉아서 그를 맞이하는 것은 바로 사랑 인형(love dolls 또는 sex dolls)이다... "

Love dolls, sex dolls -- they make Akihabara go around, but I am not too sure you will find them in South Korea. At least not yet. I have heard that one other great Akihabaran institution, the maid cafe, have begun to appear on the Peninsula. You can watch all about it on YouTube. Naturally, the footage originates in Japan:

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The male reporter says: "Kochira! Meido Kafe KICCHIN AMU AMU desu!"
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Narration: "Souru no Meido Kafe."
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Atto houmuna fun'iki de, jibun no ie de ocha wo nondeiru kanji...

Of course, not every man in Seoul is looking for girls, and Paris ain't the only gay city under the sun. This is a city with half a million Utopians, as the Utopian Gay and Lesbian Site points out. According to Utopia, Seoul is home to Queer culture and film & video festivals, Utopian beats in dark parks, and a part of town straightforwardly known as Homo Hill. But yet according to Korean sons and daughters I know, to be in gay in Korea is a stigma quiet unlike any other (worse even than being lesbian in Japan.) Erotic Art Museum and Gallery Behind the Hyundai department store near the Sinchon subway station. Stand at the entrance to the car park at the rear left side of the Hyundai building. Across the street you will see a rather severely paved, triangular park. Cross the street and enter the park and follow the diagonal yellowish brick pathway (we're off to see the whizzers!) to the lane at the opposite side of the park. There, just to the left you will see a large glass case at street level displaying a gold copy of Michelangelo's David (only the Koreans have given him a partial circumcision and a bath towel instead of a slingshot). Enter this building and take the elevator to 3/F (erotic art gallery) and 4/F (erotic art and sexuality museum). The museum is small, but nicely laid out. The fascinating artifacts and folk curios are unfortunately overshadowed by the many explicit photos showing every sort of sexual freakism that you never wanted to know about. Then again, what better place than a sex museum to view the extremes of human physiology and behavior? Homo Hill -- Bars with names like Queen, Trance and Always Homme, Oz. Parks Namsan Park Top of the hill behind Itaewon, between the Hilton and the Hyatt. After dark. The small park on the opposite side of the Hyatt, near Namsan, has become a cruising area at night, not exclusively yet though, and you have to be discreet as plenty of straight people come for a walk with their dogs or friends, even at late hours in the evening. JUMP TO:
SECTION In the last year, more wax has been played on their decks than any other club in Korea . Garden strives to cultivate a unique evocative experience where style merges with culture. This establishment can definitely be considered Seoul 's most intimate and affluent club, offering guests an affordable and upscale venue that is equipped with two distinct sound systems. www.clubgarden.co.kr A group of Uzbekistani construction workers got drunk in a corner, watched suspiciously by the thuggish security, there to "keep the peace". Suddenly the music stopped and the sound of broken glass filled the air. Some of the Uzbekistanis had got involved with a few Koreans. Things soon got nasty and as blood was being literally splattered about the place, four musclebound Korean mafiose ran in wielding chains and generally kicking the shit out of people. Predictably this "peacekeeping" measure didn't calm things down and soon the only people not involved were ourselves and a gaggle of peroxide whores standing nervously in the corner. Eventually the fight ended, the music restarted and everybody went happily back to boozing and whoring..."

If this account does not detract you from your search for Russian girls in Seoul, Gwanghui-dong's Central Asian village:

By five years later, their population had grown by 65% to an estimated 33,000 individuals, or 1.2% of the entire Mongolian population.[1] The government of South Korea estimates that one out of every two urban households in Mongolia have a family member working in South Korea.[4] 70% are believed to be residing in the country illegally.[5] The growth of the population has been so rapid that the Mongolian embassy in Seoul is largely unable to provide assistance to Mongolian residents; as a result, Mongolians have set up their own non-governmental organisations to provide mutual assistance, such as Dalain Salkhi ("Sea Breeze")..."


JAPANESE GIRLS IN SEOUL: The Firmanent Vacation writes: "Seoul is a very very nice city, quite large but still able to maintain somewhat of a pleasant smalltown feeling about it. I found some quaint traditional neighbourhoods, a Korean rock band performing on a street corner, a huge market full of odds and ends, huge uptown department stores, lots of people everywhere... everything you expect to find in the capital city of Korea, and then some more. One other thing: everywhere I went, I heard people speaking Japanese. It seems Seoul is a major tourist spot for the Japanese. And why should it not be? It is close to home, but still a different country and somewhat exotic, even for the nearest neighbors. So I played the "spot the Japanese" game, trying to figure out if peope were Japanese or not, and I discovered to my delight that I was actually pretty good at picking them out. The japanese girls, at least... ^_^ Here is a review of an Itaewon establishment by Seoul Food Guide: "THE EMBASSY LOUNGE CLUB, 123-1 ITAEWON-DONG, YONGSAN-GU, SEOUL TEL: 792 1533 The latest in the Spire Group's interesting range of places to wile the night away, the Embassy Lounge is more of a cool drinking spot than place to eat at night. Good to head there after dinner to enjoy some groovy music, sit comfortably on sofas and chill out with a bottle of wine. If you are feeling lively the small dance floor is usually occupied and bar staff will join you for a saunter during their breaks. The resident DJ will tailor music to your mood if you ask him/her to..."
"To get to the Embassy Lounge, find the fire station on Itaewon High Street and cross the road heading away from the strip up the hill past Chuwon Antiques. You will see a small car park on your left and the Embassy is upstairs above Arvorig creperie and next to a Korean Hof serving "Traditional tea, porridge and wine" (an interesting combination we thought). Alternatively, if you are in the little street behind the Hamilton Hotel where you will find 3 Alley Pub, Geckos Garden etc, look along to your left and you will see a large purple Embassy Bar sign hanging out into the road and you can head for that. One thing you will notice not only in Seoul, but in fact all over South Korea, is that Korean people are very keen to talk to foreigners. Doing the rounds at Suwon, for example, I was ambushed by a group of college girls wanting me to help them complete one of their English assignments. I was initially flattered and was willing to give them the 10 or 20 minutes necessary to answer questions like "What do you think of South Korea?" A little later in the day I encountered another group of college girls, who stopped me to ask identical questions, which they recorded on to a tape recorder. It turns out the local university had told its English language students to go looking for tourists, and to ask them a set list of questions. I didn't mind it because it gave me a chance to meet the locals, but I can understand some tourists would get fed up with it.

LOVE & 섹스

Seoul Style reports: "This smoky grungy pub is a popular spot in Itaewon. The main focus of this pub is the big circular bar where people can order drinks and congregate. The crowd is comprised mostly of foreigners particularly English teachers.Happy hour is from 4-7pm. They also have ladies nights where the gals get free drinks, but they started charging 5000 won admission recently. The Loft also serves German food. They have a pool table and darts, just like every other pub in Itaewon. This place is kind of a "meet market" and nights can degenerate quickly after a few too many. This pub is at Itaewon station near "The Hill" above the UN club..."

02) 793-3092 Darth Babaganoosh said on Galbijim: "Hottest chicks go to Korean clubs, most of which don't let foreigners in through a whole host of excuses (too old, we have a dress code, too many guys inside already, it's a special party tonight, etc).
"Club Circle in Apkujeong is pretty good, but they are both expensive and almost exclusively Korean. Hot chicks, though.
"If you can go with a group of Korean friends to a Korean club, that's where you'll find the girls..."

Rooves covered with giwa tiles... Korean red bricks...

Bonghakgwan: (031) 592-9522.




OUTSIDE SEOUL -- incheon
INCHEON HAS A POPULATION OF 650,000 PEOPLE AND IS NOW CONSIDERED A SATELITE CITY OF THE NEARBY CAPITAL, SEOUL.

Go down to Incheon (the port not the airport); it costs only a dollar (or 95 Yen) for the one-way subway ticket. Now that is what I call cheap travel -- Korea is certainly an economical country to travel inside now. The Marmot's Hole considers the Jung-gu district of Incheon (otherwise known as Chemulpo) one of his favorite parts of Korea. Just going by Marmot's photos alone, the place reminds me of Yokohama in Japan -- and just like Yokohama, there is a Chinatown nearby. Just like Yokohama, Chemulpo owes its existence to 19th Century trading treaties. As The Marmot explains: "Chemulpo was nothing more than a small fishing village until the 1880s when, following a series of essentially unequal treaties including the Treaty of Ganghwa (1876) and Chemulpo Treaty of Amity and Trade (1881), the village became a full-fledged treaty port, complete with self-administering foreign settlements, Christian churches, Western-style parks, foreigner clubs and extraterritoriality.

"Unlike Busan, Gunsan and Korea's other treaty ports, where the foreign settlements were almost entirely Japanese, Chemulpo's foreign settlement was much more diverse. The General Foreign Settlement of Chemulpo, formed in 1884, was composed of six nations EQing China, Japan, the United States, Great Britain, Russia and Germany (although China and Japan also maintained their own exclusive settlements in the city). Chemulpo became Korea's closest thing to Shanghai, home to missionaries, soldiers, traders, diplomats and rogues, brought to together in their search for fortunes, souls and imperial aggrandizement..."

Nori People: RODEO DRIVE, APGUJEONG Tel: 02 549 6674 Website: http://www.noripeople.com/. Phone: 657-12 Shinsadong, Kangnam-gu, Seoul.
"Turn left off Rodeo Drive as after the large convenience store and you will find Nori People on your right. "It is called a lounge but is an open-fronted korean "pub" full of good looking 30-somethings getting drunk, eating and having a real laugh. Funky korean tunes play and posters for reggae gigs are plastered around the walls. The toilets are outside round the corner, basic but have loo roll. Metal and plastic tables and chairs and good service from cheerful bar folk.

We loved this place. It feels real and gives you a good look at Koreans having a good time. A mix of couples out on a Friday night, mates having some beers and a chat together and small groups of friends in cool kit ready to go clubbing later (it didn't look like some of them would make it, though. There was a guy at the table next to us with his mates, just passed out fast asleep, sprawled on the table - too much Soju I think, or maybe too much beer, or perhaps a mixture ... his mates were absolutely plastered, funny to watch, lots of animated conversations, back slapping and swaggering around with their hats on sideways).
"On another note, and following our visit to a pretty people bar, there are some mighty good looking Korean men here..."

Saunas are a big deal in Korea, almost as big a deal as onsens are in Japan, and in fact a lot of Japanese girls go to Seoul specifically to spa it (especially now that the won is so weak.) Brucie G said on his Wondrous Blog of Adventure and Mystery: "On Sunday, I went with a friend to one of these "Jimjil Bongs." Bong = room and Jimjil = sauna. At least I think it means sauna cause that's the main attraction. And it's really not much like the only sauna place I've been to in NY (the russian one downtown). It was bigger and much more family-oriented. Lots of little kiddies running around. In the main area there's a big wooden floor with people lounging on little pillows, eating, watching TV, playing playstation, sitting on massage chairs, and probably doing some other Korean things that I didn't understand. This is right next to the different types of saunas that you can go in and out of at your leisure (mud walls, jeweled walls, super hot ones and so on in that order). There are vary degrees of these places, but this one was really clean and nice. The extreme male nudity in the locker room and single-sex whirpools/hot tubs will probably take a little getting use to, but I sort of steered clear of there this first time. I'll venture there next time I suppose. Wish me luck. I'm gonna need it. Decent article about it here: http://www.seoulstyle.com/art_naked.htm The article starts out with this line: The Korean sauna may seem a bit daunting if not outright surreal for the uninitiated foreigner. But I felt right at home! It seems that whenever someone tells me I might have to "adjust" to something, there's not much adjustment needed at all. So I guess either I was initiated well with my plethora of Asian friends or, like Colbert, I don't see race.





STARBUCKS IN SOUTH KOREA
Starbucks might be closing coffee shops around the world, but they seem to be still thriving in East Asia, South Korea particularly. If you are on your game, a cafe like this could be a good place to pick up. To see the full catalogue of Starbucks in Seoul (in Japanese and Korean) hit up Paretake's StarBucks Korea Site. Paretake lists this branch, in Sosomun (that's literally "Western Little Gate" in English):
명지빌딩점(79호) 서소문점(181호)
There is also a Starbucks outside Jonggak Station, near the Kyobo Bookstore. NORTH EAST ASIA VS SOUTH EAST ASIA
답십리역

You could call this the pot street of Seoul -- for Japanese language confirmation of this fact, click here. It is one of the first places I visited on my first visit to Seoul back in 2002, and it continues to fascinate me today. According to Gatoko: "The antique street in Dapsimni, filled with stores dealing antique goods and porcelain, is a living cultural asset and a museum. The dealers of old calligraphic works, antique furniture, and porcelain works that used to be scattered in and around the areas of Cheonggyecheon 8-ga, Yitaewon, and Ahyeon-dong, gradually came to be concentrated in this area starting from the mid-1980s. There are currently 139 stores on this street alone, dealing in over 500,000 pieces of antiques. The street, extending between Dapsimni 4- and 5-dongs, is divided into the eastern street (Jang-anpyeong Retail Mall) and the western street (Samhee Retail Mall) with the Police Station of Dapsimni 5-dong in between..."

RESTAURANT REVIEWS // ofood


The following restaurant reviews and pictures come from the Korean blogosphere, specifically ofood. Unfortunately this site is Korean language only, but a picture tells a thousand words, and the stories these following pictures tell are worth their weight in gold. You can search for restaurants all over South Korea, via a funky clickable map; alternatively you can search for your favorite meals providing you know how to spell them in hangul. Find the restaurant you like and then you can locate it realworld via a nice digital map. That clickable, scalable map covers all of South Korea -- unfortunately not North Korea, although that might change one day!
인하찹쌀순대
: 경기 부천시 소사구 송내동 600. Phone: 032-652-3834. Directions: 부천 남부경찰서 정문 앞.
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참품한우: 서울 관악구 신림동 1428-21 지상2~6층. Phone: 02-888-6940~2. Directions: 2호선 신림역 7번출구 보라매병원 방향 300m 지점.
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According to Ofood: "한우고기를 좋아하는 나는 저렴하게 가족과 함께 먹을수 있는 곳으로 늘 셀프로 구워먹는 고기집을 찾아
"가기도 했었는데 밑반찬도 없고, 밥이며, 야채며, 일일히 사서 먹으니까 가격이 쌀것 같지만 결국은 싼가격은 아니었지요~
"그래서 이제는 한정식요리와 소고기요리를 한꺼번에 즐기는 코스요리집 ~ "미가할매"집을 방문했답니다.
"미가 할매집은 7층전체건물이, 다 ~식당인데 리모델링을 해서 오픈한지 얼마안되어서 무지 깨끗했어요^^
"한정식요리와 한우요리를 오늘은 마음껏 한꺼번에 즐겨볼까 합니다~
"ㅋㅋ 난 푸짐한게 너무 좋아서리....내게 딱인것 같구 안성맞춤이기도 합니다.
"신림동 1번가 유명한 횟집 맞은편, 도로변에 위치하고 있어서 찾기도 쉽구요~^^ ..."
Seems to be an upmarket joint -- could you take your date here?

Picture courtesy Ofood

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