In contrast to masochists, sadists play the role of the law-giving Other.

The parent of a pervert gets off on humiliating and blaming his or her children.

Maniac High is a masochist, and Garnet is an exhibitionist!

The exhibitionist is grabbed by the jouissance of the Other's gaze.

Sadean fantasy of the "second death". The sadist aims to destroy her/his victim at the level of the signifier. Mum burning leaves and other rubbish, breaking fire regulations; spraying disinfectant in my room. To their disappointment, sadists never succeed at their goal. Their hatred is driven by their disavowal of the signifier.